Do you know of any people that have "casual" meetings?

Someone, who had visited here sent us, a nice message with a question; we respond:

from: A visitor to clistdating.com
to: clistdating.com
subject: Suggestions.
Hi, love the site. It has great information about these craigslist spammers and fakes. Do you know of any people that have "casual" meetings in the triad area of North carolina?

Thanks for your message and encouragement; we hope to help. We are not located close enough to know what, specficialy, the scene is like in that area. One easy way to find the "casual" meetings and folks that indulge in the lifestyle is to set up a profile on an adult dating site and see what type of things are mentioned on the local groups sections. The really good sites like AFF and SLS have "groups" you can join and, many times, you can find out about a local meeting place and times that "casual" or swinging folks are getting to know each other. If you go and make friends with a few folks then you can often get in on the real action. We like browsing the craigslist casual encounters and personals sections for fun, but we really have met some of the best people that we have partied with through Adult FriendFinder and SwingLifeStyle. Once you get to know a few people, make friends and show that you are ready to party then you have it made. Every place and group of people is a little different so go to a few different mixers that you find out about and see what you like the best.

What kind of things you the rest of you do to find the scene you want to get into?